"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do we kino those shy girls?

DreamerZZ35

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Originally posted by Lingham
Ok folks, since reading the bible here things have improved. I've gone form complete AFC to somebody girls notice. And it is about time since I have decent looks, and an interesting life . . . but awful tendency to be quiet and reserved. Hell i'm 24 years old now.

Anyways there is this Russian girl at my school who is always hovering around me. She is even way more shy than me. So It is hard to have a conversation with her because she don't talk much. But she often sits beside me and always seems to "accidentally" bump into me (either she is a klutz or that is flirting).

So since she isn't a great conversationalist (I don't want to try talking to her on the phone or going out on a long date with her) But she is adorable and cute, (I always fall for that type, i'm a fool). BUT HOW DO I KINO WITH HER? I have a suspicion if I can KINO with her it will really turn her on. Any suggestions of how I might do it? We see each other daily in class. Lets hope somebody comes up with something better than "accidentally" bumping into her.
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Are you the man (alpha) or not? Being the man is being ASSERTIVE. Women are desperatly seeking men who are the masters of there own world. You politely TAKE what you want.

you say this girl is "But she often sits beside me and always seems to "accidentally" bump into me" You best move fast or she will assume you are not interested. Thats about overt as a woman gets. If this girl is bumping into you or accidently touching you she is big time green lighting you.

Heres what you do the next time she is in your personal space take her hand and read her reaction. You are making this much, much more difficult than it has to be.

BE THE MASTER not the slave
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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