original_prankster
New Member
yo dudes, u guys hav helped me a lot , so i'm guessing u know how to turn your friend into your girlfriend. thanx dudes
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how do u turn your friend into your girlfriend?
- Thread starter original_prankster
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
slap her around the face with your penis.
ok, maybe don't do that, but seriously dude I'd say you shouldn't even try..once you've been placed in the "friends" category its mighty difficult to get out again.
sorry to be so negative but what you're asking to do isn't an easy task and its probably a much better idea to just next her..and save yourself a LOT of time and effort.
however, if you really can't do that and are desperate to try something then:
start flirting with her (making fun of her, teasing her etc)
start touching her more (not sexually - especially not at first)
don't listen to her problems with other guys/be her shoulder to cry on..etc
I'm sure some other guys on here can give you a few more pointers
good luck dude, you will need it.
ok, maybe don't do that, but seriously dude I'd say you shouldn't even try..once you've been placed in the "friends" category its mighty difficult to get out again.
sorry to be so negative but what you're asking to do isn't an easy task and its probably a much better idea to just next her..and save yourself a LOT of time and effort.
however, if you really can't do that and are desperate to try something then:
start flirting with her (making fun of her, teasing her etc)
start touching her more (not sexually - especially not at first)
don't listen to her problems with other guys/be her shoulder to cry on..etc
I'm sure some other guys on here can give you a few more pointers
good luck dude, you will need it.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
Thank you...
LOL @ some people trying to give advice based on their interpretation of the theory in the DJ Bible... looking through the threads the amount of bad advice is terrible...
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
"Well, they could be FRIENDS. It doesn't mean she put him in that ZONE. "
True, however the tone of his post suggest she's not showing any romantic interest so I was assuming he'd been placed into that category. To be honest if you had any experience you'd know its quite likely...obviously he likes this girl and was initially going for more than a friendship..and yet they are still only friends. So either he's so shy he never showed ANY signs he liked her or she has preveted the relationship from moving on.
Ashley...shut up you fool. Once a woman has decided you're too much of a nice guy, its not worth the time or the effort to try and "fix things"..... and prove to her that you are actually a man, rather than her little friendly sissy boy who does everything for her.
True, however the tone of his post suggest she's not showing any romantic interest so I was assuming he'd been placed into that category. To be honest if you had any experience you'd know its quite likely...obviously he likes this girl and was initially going for more than a friendship..and yet they are still only friends. So either he's so shy he never showed ANY signs he liked her or she has preveted the relationship from moving on.
Ashley...shut up you fool. Once a woman has decided you're too much of a nice guy, its not worth the time or the effort to try and "fix things"..... and prove to her that you are actually a man, rather than her little friendly sissy boy who does everything for her.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
JimmyZ
Don Juan
Look man, the best you could do it this:
1. Emphasis the fact that you have no romantic intrest in her....
2. When you are around her, be in company of other females and do not give her any attention.
but if you give her the slightest indication that you might be intrested... you're done for.
OR
Just grab her and kiss her, might just shock her into reconsidering you as a romantic intrest....
Not very likelyto work...
1. Emphasis the fact that you have no romantic intrest in her....
2. When you are around her, be in company of other females and do not give her any attention.
but if you give her the slightest indication that you might be intrested... you're done for.
OR
Just grab her and kiss her, might just shock her into reconsidering you as a romantic intrest....
Not very likelyto work...
Sharpe
Don Juan
When she's in a set, start using the M3. When you've worked through most of the M3, then she will realise that you are better than anyone else she could be with, and then she will be your girlfriend.
Make sure you know the rules of the game if you want to play it properly.
Make sure you know the rules of the game if you want to play it properly.