original_prankster
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yo dudes, u guys hav helped me a lot , so i'm guessing u know how to turn your friend into your girlfriend. thanx dudes
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
how do u turn your friend into your girlfriend?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
slap her around the face with your penis.
ok, maybe don't do that, but seriously dude I'd say you shouldn't even try..once you've been placed in the "friends" category its mighty difficult to get out again.
sorry to be so negative but what you're asking to do isn't an easy task and its probably a much better idea to just next her..and save yourself a LOT of time and effort.
however, if you really can't do that and are desperate to try something then:
start flirting with her (making fun of her, teasing her etc)
start touching her more (not sexually - especially not at first)
don't listen to her problems with other guys/be her shoulder to cry on..etc
I'm sure some other guys on here can give you a few more pointers
good luck dude, you will need it.
ok, maybe don't do that, but seriously dude I'd say you shouldn't even try..once you've been placed in the "friends" category its mighty difficult to get out again.
sorry to be so negative but what you're asking to do isn't an easy task and its probably a much better idea to just next her..and save yourself a LOT of time and effort.
however, if you really can't do that and are desperate to try something then:
start flirting with her (making fun of her, teasing her etc)
start touching her more (not sexually - especially not at first)
don't listen to her problems with other guys/be her shoulder to cry on..etc
I'm sure some other guys on here can give you a few more pointers
good luck dude, you will need it.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
Thank you...
LOL @ some people trying to give advice based on their interpretation of the theory in the DJ Bible... looking through the threads the amount of bad advice is terrible...
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
"Well, they could be FRIENDS. It doesn't mean she put him in that ZONE. "
True, however the tone of his post suggest she's not showing any romantic interest so I was assuming he'd been placed into that category. To be honest if you had any experience you'd know its quite likely...obviously he likes this girl and was initially going for more than a friendship..and yet they are still only friends. So either he's so shy he never showed ANY signs he liked her or she has preveted the relationship from moving on.
Ashley...shut up you fool. Once a woman has decided you're too much of a nice guy, its not worth the time or the effort to try and "fix things"..... and prove to her that you are actually a man, rather than her little friendly sissy boy who does everything for her.
True, however the tone of his post suggest she's not showing any romantic interest so I was assuming he'd been placed into that category. To be honest if you had any experience you'd know its quite likely...obviously he likes this girl and was initially going for more than a friendship..and yet they are still only friends. So either he's so shy he never showed ANY signs he liked her or she has preveted the relationship from moving on.
Ashley...shut up you fool. Once a woman has decided you're too much of a nice guy, its not worth the time or the effort to try and "fix things"..... and prove to her that you are actually a man, rather than her little friendly sissy boy who does everything for her.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
JimmyZ
Don Juan
Look man, the best you could do it this:
1. Emphasis the fact that you have no romantic intrest in her....
2. When you are around her, be in company of other females and do not give her any attention.
but if you give her the slightest indication that you might be intrested... you're done for.
OR
Just grab her and kiss her, might just shock her into reconsidering you as a romantic intrest....
Not very likelyto work...
1. Emphasis the fact that you have no romantic intrest in her....
2. When you are around her, be in company of other females and do not give her any attention.
but if you give her the slightest indication that you might be intrested... you're done for.
OR
Just grab her and kiss her, might just shock her into reconsidering you as a romantic intrest....
Not very likelyto work...
Sharpe
Don Juan
When she's in a set, start using the M3. When you've worked through most of the M3, then she will realise that you are better than anyone else she could be with, and then she will be your girlfriend.
Make sure you know the rules of the game if you want to play it properly.
Make sure you know the rules of the game if you want to play it properly.