original_prankster
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yo dudes, u guys hav helped me a lot , so i'm guessing u know how to turn your friend into your girlfriend. thanx dudes
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how do u turn your friend into your girlfriend?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
slap her around the face with your penis.
ok, maybe don't do that, but seriously dude I'd say you shouldn't even try..once you've been placed in the "friends" category its mighty difficult to get out again.
sorry to be so negative but what you're asking to do isn't an easy task and its probably a much better idea to just next her..and save yourself a LOT of time and effort.
however, if you really can't do that and are desperate to try something then:
start flirting with her (making fun of her, teasing her etc)
start touching her more (not sexually - especially not at first)
don't listen to her problems with other guys/be her shoulder to cry on..etc
I'm sure some other guys on here can give you a few more pointers
good luck dude, you will need it.
ok, maybe don't do that, but seriously dude I'd say you shouldn't even try..once you've been placed in the "friends" category its mighty difficult to get out again.
sorry to be so negative but what you're asking to do isn't an easy task and its probably a much better idea to just next her..and save yourself a LOT of time and effort.
however, if you really can't do that and are desperate to try something then:
start flirting with her (making fun of her, teasing her etc)
start touching her more (not sexually - especially not at first)
don't listen to her problems with other guys/be her shoulder to cry on..etc
I'm sure some other guys on here can give you a few more pointers
good luck dude, you will need it.
Chemistry
Master Don Juan
Thank you...
LOL @ some people trying to give advice based on their interpretation of the theory in the DJ Bible... looking through the threads the amount of bad advice is terrible...
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
"Well, they could be FRIENDS. It doesn't mean she put him in that ZONE. "
True, however the tone of his post suggest she's not showing any romantic interest so I was assuming he'd been placed into that category. To be honest if you had any experience you'd know its quite likely...obviously he likes this girl and was initially going for more than a friendship..and yet they are still only friends. So either he's so shy he never showed ANY signs he liked her or she has preveted the relationship from moving on.
Ashley...shut up you fool. Once a woman has decided you're too much of a nice guy, its not worth the time or the effort to try and "fix things"..... and prove to her that you are actually a man, rather than her little friendly sissy boy who does everything for her.
True, however the tone of his post suggest she's not showing any romantic interest so I was assuming he'd been placed into that category. To be honest if you had any experience you'd know its quite likely...obviously he likes this girl and was initially going for more than a friendship..and yet they are still only friends. So either he's so shy he never showed ANY signs he liked her or she has preveted the relationship from moving on.
Ashley...shut up you fool. Once a woman has decided you're too much of a nice guy, its not worth the time or the effort to try and "fix things"..... and prove to her that you are actually a man, rather than her little friendly sissy boy who does everything for her.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
JimmyZ
Don Juan
Look man, the best you could do it this:
1. Emphasis the fact that you have no romantic intrest in her....
2. When you are around her, be in company of other females and do not give her any attention.
but if you give her the slightest indication that you might be intrested... you're done for.
OR
Just grab her and kiss her, might just shock her into reconsidering you as a romantic intrest....
Not very likelyto work...
1. Emphasis the fact that you have no romantic intrest in her....
2. When you are around her, be in company of other females and do not give her any attention.
but if you give her the slightest indication that you might be intrested... you're done for.
OR
Just grab her and kiss her, might just shock her into reconsidering you as a romantic intrest....
Not very likelyto work...
Sharpe
Don Juan
When she's in a set, start using the M3. When you've worked through most of the M3, then she will realise that you are better than anyone else she could be with, and then she will be your girlfriend.
Make sure you know the rules of the game if you want to play it properly.
Make sure you know the rules of the game if you want to play it properly.