how do u get them back

[sparky1981]

he guys

I'm not new to this. I use to b here but have rejoined under a new name.

Anyway. I made a bit of mistake with this girl.
We been out and she seemed pretty cool with going out. We txt instead of ring. The other night I texted her a bit to much and showed her i'm desperate. She's not so sure she wants me. So how Do I redeem myself if thats poss?

 

[BackToTheMack]

Do not call her or talk to her till she contacts you. Next time dont hide behind text messages just call. Were are your balls?

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
Do not call her or talk to her till she contacts you.

I agree. If you can do this, you can redeem yourself, but if you give in and text her or try to prompt her to get back to you, you will lose by it.

I disagree about calling her instead of texting though. It has nothing to do with balls. Sometimes it's just easier, more casual and less intrusive to text.

 

[BackToTheMack]

Agreed but the way he is describing its his only form of communication with her besides face to face. This is what i do not think is ok.

 

[griffon65]

Hye no big deal bro. You have a really good chance of getting her interest back. Ignore her and wait for her to call you. When she does keep that convo sweet but short, pretend your busy and call her back later. And take it from there.

 

[sparky1981]

I use txt because I its easy to say something anytime day or night and cheap. It is like ringing some1 but better

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by sparky1981
I use txt because I its easy to say something anytime day or night and cheap. It is like ringing some1 but better

Just don't let texting ruin your face-to-face communication skills. I have this strange feeling that many people that rely on text too much will become too used to having the time to prepare their response that when it comes to face-to-face convos, they suck at it because they're not spontaneous enough. Just a feeling only though.

 

[sparky1981]

I ahve plenty of workmates, flatmates and freinds to keep me on top of that. The secret to talking to chicks is that they r just another person. Talk to them like they r

 

[MacDiddy]

think cost benefit... Much easier to find new opportunity then it is to recover.. Been illustrated ample times on this site...