"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do u get hardcore lookin muscle?

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lately i noticed somthing n its been brought 2 my curiousity....there are guys out there that lift like the rest(or so i assumed) and they get all this hardcore looking muscle i mean its like ripd...u can see tha muscles outline and everything...but then there are others like u see in tha tv show(the worlds strongest men) or whatever these guys are freakin huge(fat kinda way) they curl like 50lb or more,bench like 330lb N up but when u look at these guys they look like there arms r made outta fat? y is this ? is it just different genes? or different routiens? different weights?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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they have higher body fat thus covering the muscle.
 
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so ur sayin tha best way 2 solve this is 2 run more? i ran a mile each day..but still looks lke theres fat round my arm..so how many miles u suggest 2 run?
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
so ur sayin tha best way 2 solve this is 2 run more? i ran a mile each day..but still looks lke theres fat round my arm..so how many miles u suggest 2 run?

Short intense interval cardio is more effective, especially when you are trying to gain muscle. Do a search for 'hiit' (high intensity interval training), and read diesel's guide to cutting (stickied at the top).
 

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Originally posted by Bradshaw
Short intense interval cardio is more effective, especially when you are trying to gain muscle. Do a search for 'hiit' (high intensity interval training), and read diesel's guide to cutting (stickied at the top).
Note that HIIT will however, hurt your recovery times.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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^^ At first anyway, until your body adapts.

When it's adapted you're recovery time from weight lifting SHOULD actually be reduced.... Just don't overtrain.
 

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Even once your body's adapted, sprints and the like will damage your squat weight.
 

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No arguement from me on that point!
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
lately i noticed somthing n its been brought 2 my curiousity....there are guys out there that lift like the rest(or so i assumed) and they get all this hardcore looking muscle i mean its like ripd...u can see tha muscles outline and everything...but then there are others like u see in tha tv show(the worlds strongest men) or whatever these guys are freakin huge(fat kinda way) they curl like 50lb or more,bench like 330lb N up but when u look at these guys they look like there arms r made outta fat? y is this ? is it just different genes? or different routiens? different weights?
They have more fat because looks are not important (cutting reduces your strength) and being ripped is a sure way to ask for injuries in those sports (powerlifting, strongman, stone lifting, etc...). Bodybuilders are ripped because their strength is not important.

They train differently too, powerlifers train with more sets and fewer reps. Strongmen train alot of arms, back and legs as well as some cardio. Bodybuilders have fewer sets and more reps. Their training alone does not make them gain fat, however, volume training with more reps will make the muscles grow more than powerlifting style lifting.
 

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Single most important thing about getting rid of that fat so the muscles show through is diet. If you don't eat right you're never gonna achieve that ripped look.

www.bodybuilding.com is a good resource for everything related to getting a ripped body.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by DJDanny
Single most important thing about getting rid of that fat so the muscles show through is diet. If you don't eat right you're never gonna achieve that ripped look.

www.bodybuilding.com is a good resource for everything related to getting a ripped body.
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i don't think it needs a powerlifter to curl 50lbs... i think you meant kilograms. 50lbs are 20 kgs and i know lots of people that don't even workout and could lift that
 

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even 50 kg curl is pathetic. Magnus curls 180 kg if I remeber right.
 

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50 lb dumbbell curls in strict form isnt bad but for a bodybuilder not a power lifter.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Powerlifters don't curl.
 
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