"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how do u get hardcore lookin muscle?

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lately i noticed somthing n its been brought 2 my curiousity....there are guys out there that lift like the rest(or so i assumed) and they get all this hardcore looking muscle i mean its like ripd...u can see tha muscles outline and everything...but then there are others like u see in tha tv show(the worlds strongest men) or whatever these guys are freakin huge(fat kinda way) they curl like 50lb or more,bench like 330lb N up but when u look at these guys they look like there arms r made outta fat? y is this ? is it just different genes? or different routiens? different weights?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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they have higher body fat thus covering the muscle.
 
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so ur sayin tha best way 2 solve this is 2 run more? i ran a mile each day..but still looks lke theres fat round my arm..so how many miles u suggest 2 run?
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
so ur sayin tha best way 2 solve this is 2 run more? i ran a mile each day..but still looks lke theres fat round my arm..so how many miles u suggest 2 run?

Short intense interval cardio is more effective, especially when you are trying to gain muscle. Do a search for 'hiit' (high intensity interval training), and read diesel's guide to cutting (stickied at the top).
 

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Originally posted by Bradshaw
Short intense interval cardio is more effective, especially when you are trying to gain muscle. Do a search for 'hiit' (high intensity interval training), and read diesel's guide to cutting (stickied at the top).
Note that HIIT will however, hurt your recovery times.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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^^ At first anyway, until your body adapts.

When it's adapted you're recovery time from weight lifting SHOULD actually be reduced.... Just don't overtrain.
 

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Even once your body's adapted, sprints and the like will damage your squat weight.
 

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No arguement from me on that point!
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
lately i noticed somthing n its been brought 2 my curiousity....there are guys out there that lift like the rest(or so i assumed) and they get all this hardcore looking muscle i mean its like ripd...u can see tha muscles outline and everything...but then there are others like u see in tha tv show(the worlds strongest men) or whatever these guys are freakin huge(fat kinda way) they curl like 50lb or more,bench like 330lb N up but when u look at these guys they look like there arms r made outta fat? y is this ? is it just different genes? or different routiens? different weights?
They have more fat because looks are not important (cutting reduces your strength) and being ripped is a sure way to ask for injuries in those sports (powerlifting, strongman, stone lifting, etc...). Bodybuilders are ripped because their strength is not important.

They train differently too, powerlifers train with more sets and fewer reps. Strongmen train alot of arms, back and legs as well as some cardio. Bodybuilders have fewer sets and more reps. Their training alone does not make them gain fat, however, volume training with more reps will make the muscles grow more than powerlifting style lifting.
 

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Single most important thing about getting rid of that fat so the muscles show through is diet. If you don't eat right you're never gonna achieve that ripped look.

www.bodybuilding.com is a good resource for everything related to getting a ripped body.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by DJDanny
Single most important thing about getting rid of that fat so the muscles show through is diet. If you don't eat right you're never gonna achieve that ripped look.

www.bodybuilding.com is a good resource for everything related to getting a ripped body.
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i don't think it needs a powerlifter to curl 50lbs... i think you meant kilograms. 50lbs are 20 kgs and i know lots of people that don't even workout and could lift that
 

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even 50 kg curl is pathetic. Magnus curls 180 kg if I remeber right.
 

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50 lb dumbbell curls in strict form isnt bad but for a bodybuilder not a power lifter.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Powerlifters don't curl.
 
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