Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how do u get hardcore lookin muscle?

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lately i noticed somthing n its been brought 2 my curiousity....there are guys out there that lift like the rest(or so i assumed) and they get all this hardcore looking muscle i mean its like ripd...u can see tha muscles outline and everything...but then there are others like u see in tha tv show(the worlds strongest men) or whatever these guys are freakin huge(fat kinda way) they curl like 50lb or more,bench like 330lb N up but when u look at these guys they look like there arms r made outta fat? y is this ? is it just different genes? or different routiens? different weights?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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they have higher body fat thus covering the muscle.
 
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so ur sayin tha best way 2 solve this is 2 run more? i ran a mile each day..but still looks lke theres fat round my arm..so how many miles u suggest 2 run?
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
so ur sayin tha best way 2 solve this is 2 run more? i ran a mile each day..but still looks lke theres fat round my arm..so how many miles u suggest 2 run?

Short intense interval cardio is more effective, especially when you are trying to gain muscle. Do a search for 'hiit' (high intensity interval training), and read diesel's guide to cutting (stickied at the top).
 

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Originally posted by Bradshaw
Short intense interval cardio is more effective, especially when you are trying to gain muscle. Do a search for 'hiit' (high intensity interval training), and read diesel's guide to cutting (stickied at the top).
Note that HIIT will however, hurt your recovery times.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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^^ At first anyway, until your body adapts.

When it's adapted you're recovery time from weight lifting SHOULD actually be reduced.... Just don't overtrain.
 

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Even once your body's adapted, sprints and the like will damage your squat weight.
 

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No arguement from me on that point!
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
lately i noticed somthing n its been brought 2 my curiousity....there are guys out there that lift like the rest(or so i assumed) and they get all this hardcore looking muscle i mean its like ripd...u can see tha muscles outline and everything...but then there are others like u see in tha tv show(the worlds strongest men) or whatever these guys are freakin huge(fat kinda way) they curl like 50lb or more,bench like 330lb N up but when u look at these guys they look like there arms r made outta fat? y is this ? is it just different genes? or different routiens? different weights?
They have more fat because looks are not important (cutting reduces your strength) and being ripped is a sure way to ask for injuries in those sports (powerlifting, strongman, stone lifting, etc...). Bodybuilders are ripped because their strength is not important.

They train differently too, powerlifers train with more sets and fewer reps. Strongmen train alot of arms, back and legs as well as some cardio. Bodybuilders have fewer sets and more reps. Their training alone does not make them gain fat, however, volume training with more reps will make the muscles grow more than powerlifting style lifting.
 

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Single most important thing about getting rid of that fat so the muscles show through is diet. If you don't eat right you're never gonna achieve that ripped look.

www.bodybuilding.com is a good resource for everything related to getting a ripped body.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by DJDanny
Single most important thing about getting rid of that fat so the muscles show through is diet. If you don't eat right you're never gonna achieve that ripped look.

www.bodybuilding.com is a good resource for everything related to getting a ripped body.
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i don't think it needs a powerlifter to curl 50lbs... i think you meant kilograms. 50lbs are 20 kgs and i know lots of people that don't even workout and could lift that
 

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even 50 kg curl is pathetic. Magnus curls 180 kg if I remeber right.
 

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50 lb dumbbell curls in strict form isnt bad but for a bodybuilder not a power lifter.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Powerlifters don't curl.
 
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