"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I turn this situation to my advantage?

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Ok, I have been helping this girl with a English project recently. Like she will ask me questions about the paper and asks for help on other stuff sometimes. I believe she may possibly be using me simply to get a higher grade on her homework, yet at the same time I make her laugh allot in class and we have had some... ok conversations. (I feel like our conversations are lacking in energy and flirtation)

If she is using me simply for homework how do I take advantage of this, if she does genuinely have interest in me how do I improve my value with her and successfully flirt with her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You got friend zoned buddy...
NEXT.

And if you're not already dead in the friendzone (you probably are)...learn to neg and DHV PROPERLY. I know many guys here would disagree with me, but those theories helped me a lot in my journey. Well, it depends on your personality. If you're mechanical and analytical like me, yep, those work. If you're not, think of telling cool stories that make yourself look cool.

Good luck.
 
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novaknight said:
You got friend zoned buddy...
NEXT.

And if you're not already dead in the friendzone (you probably are)...learn to neg and DHV PROPERLY. I know many guys here would disagree with me, but those theories helped me a lot in my journey. Well, it depends on your personality. If you're mechanical and analytical like me, yep, those work. If you're not, think of telling cool stories that make yourself look cool.

Good luck.
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I dont know how I could be friendzoned its only been two or so weeks now. Pretty sure the relationship has to last a bit longer to get into friendzone. Can you explain neging and DHV? I know like the basic definition of neging where you jokingly put them down a bit and then act positively. Probubly wrong tho.
 
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