"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Swissgiant

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Ok, I have been helping this girl with a English project recently. Like she will ask me questions about the paper and asks for help on other stuff sometimes. I believe she may possibly be using me simply to get a higher grade on her homework, yet at the same time I make her laugh allot in class and we have had some... ok conversations. (I feel like our conversations are lacking in energy and flirtation)

If she is using me simply for homework how do I take advantage of this, if she does genuinely have interest in me how do I improve my value with her and successfully flirt with her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You got friend zoned buddy...
NEXT.

And if you're not already dead in the friendzone (you probably are)...learn to neg and DHV PROPERLY. I know many guys here would disagree with me, but those theories helped me a lot in my journey. Well, it depends on your personality. If you're mechanical and analytical like me, yep, those work. If you're not, think of telling cool stories that make yourself look cool.

Good luck.
 
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novaknight said:
You got friend zoned buddy...
NEXT.

And if you're not already dead in the friendzone (you probably are)...learn to neg and DHV PROPERLY. I know many guys here would disagree with me, but those theories helped me a lot in my journey. Well, it depends on your personality. If you're mechanical and analytical like me, yep, those work. If you're not, think of telling cool stories that make yourself look cool.

Good luck.
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I dont know how I could be friendzoned its only been two or so weeks now. Pretty sure the relationship has to last a bit longer to get into friendzone. Can you explain neging and DHV? I know like the basic definition of neging where you jokingly put them down a bit and then act positively. Probubly wrong tho.
 
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