"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I turn this situation to my advantage?

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Ok, I have been helping this girl with a English project recently. Like she will ask me questions about the paper and asks for help on other stuff sometimes. I believe she may possibly be using me simply to get a higher grade on her homework, yet at the same time I make her laugh allot in class and we have had some... ok conversations. (I feel like our conversations are lacking in energy and flirtation)

If she is using me simply for homework how do I take advantage of this, if she does genuinely have interest in me how do I improve my value with her and successfully flirt with her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You got friend zoned buddy...
NEXT.

And if you're not already dead in the friendzone (you probably are)...learn to neg and DHV PROPERLY. I know many guys here would disagree with me, but those theories helped me a lot in my journey. Well, it depends on your personality. If you're mechanical and analytical like me, yep, those work. If you're not, think of telling cool stories that make yourself look cool.

Good luck.
 
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novaknight said:
You got friend zoned buddy...
NEXT.

And if you're not already dead in the friendzone (you probably are)...learn to neg and DHV PROPERLY. I know many guys here would disagree with me, but those theories helped me a lot in my journey. Well, it depends on your personality. If you're mechanical and analytical like me, yep, those work. If you're not, think of telling cool stories that make yourself look cool.

Good luck.
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I dont know how I could be friendzoned its only been two or so weeks now. Pretty sure the relationship has to last a bit longer to get into friendzone. Can you explain neging and DHV? I know like the basic definition of neging where you jokingly put them down a bit and then act positively. Probubly wrong tho.
 
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