"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how do i stop offering help?

big weezy

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I have this prob whereever a girl acts damsel in distress I turn into captain save a h0 no matter the prob.

For instance this older womani started talking to but has friendzoned me I keep offering her help or advice on stuff. My default setting seems to be supplication, she didn't respond to my text a week ago so I thought **** it it I'm not gona speak to her anymore cos she's clearly showing not interest. Today in a coffe place she passes by me and says hi, I say hi and she asks me how I'm doing I say I'm good and ask her if she's ok, she says 'I'm over there' where she's pointing to sitting, last time I went over and spent ages talking, like a stupid lapdog so this time I didn go, I told myself I'd either as I leave just say bye and walk out or I'd ssay bye but try to talk a bit, 2nd option was a mistake cos she has some computer prb and I offered to help. Basically I'm so friendszoned I should just hang myself. How do I change this behaviour not to help a woman with her BS probs?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You say "sorry, I can't help you right now, I have somewhere to be." Then leave.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Does not helping these women with their problems make you an a$$hole or a prick?

It doesn't have to be that way.

Just think "It's no business of mine."
 
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