"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how do i stop offering help?

big weezy

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I have this prob whereever a girl acts damsel in distress I turn into captain save a h0 no matter the prob.

For instance this older womani started talking to but has friendzoned me I keep offering her help or advice on stuff. My default setting seems to be supplication, she didn't respond to my text a week ago so I thought **** it it I'm not gona speak to her anymore cos she's clearly showing not interest. Today in a coffe place she passes by me and says hi, I say hi and she asks me how I'm doing I say I'm good and ask her if she's ok, she says 'I'm over there' where she's pointing to sitting, last time I went over and spent ages talking, like a stupid lapdog so this time I didn go, I told myself I'd either as I leave just say bye and walk out or I'd ssay bye but try to talk a bit, 2nd option was a mistake cos she has some computer prb and I offered to help. Basically I'm so friendszoned I should just hang myself. How do I change this behaviour not to help a woman with her BS probs?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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theunflushables

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You say "sorry, I can't help you right now, I have somewhere to be." Then leave.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Does not helping these women with their problems make you an a$$hole or a prick?

It doesn't have to be that way.

Just think "It's no business of mine."
 
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