I have this prob whereever a girl acts damsel in distress I turn into captain save a h0 no matter the prob.
For instance this older womani started talking to but has friendzoned me I keep offering her help or advice on stuff. My default setting seems to be supplication, she didn't respond to my text a week ago so I thought **** it it I'm not gona speak to her anymore cos she's clearly showing not interest. Today in a coffe place she passes by me and says hi, I say hi and she asks me how I'm doing I say I'm good and ask her if she's ok, she says 'I'm over there' where she's pointing to sitting, last time I went over and spent ages talking, like a stupid lapdog so this time I didn go, I told myself I'd either as I leave just say bye and walk out or I'd ssay bye but try to talk a bit, 2nd option was a mistake cos she has some computer prb and I offered to help. Basically I'm so friendszoned I should just hang myself. How do I change this behaviour not to help a woman with her BS probs?
For instance this older womani started talking to but has friendzoned me I keep offering her help or advice on stuff. My default setting seems to be supplication, she didn't respond to my text a week ago so I thought **** it it I'm not gona speak to her anymore cos she's clearly showing not interest. Today in a coffe place she passes by me and says hi, I say hi and she asks me how I'm doing I say I'm good and ask her if she's ok, she says 'I'm over there' where she's pointing to sitting, last time I went over and spent ages talking, like a stupid lapdog so this time I didn go, I told myself I'd either as I leave just say bye and walk out or I'd ssay bye but try to talk a bit, 2nd option was a mistake cos she has some computer prb and I offered to help. Basically I'm so friendszoned I should just hang myself. How do I change this behaviour not to help a woman with her BS probs?