"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do I respond to these?

eggnawgkid

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Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oilers05

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One answer to all three, act like you know it baby. Ha! Assume the positive. If a girl says your hot look into her eyes and smile, think inside your head, d*mn right I'm hot.

P-S: If your friends don't respect you, get new ones.
 

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Originally posted by eggnawgkid
Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
1. 'Hey.... RESPECT!'
2. 'Woah mate, she's like my little sister, thats digusting'
3. 'Respect'
 

True Wolf

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How to respond to these? Like a man of course. :D
 

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Sorry to hijack your thread, but I didn't wanna start a new one with the same discussion.

I was at a friends house and met this girl a few hours before. I'm hitting on her, and doing kino. Then I put my arm around her, and she says "You're weird". I don't remember what I said, but it probably was'nt good. How should I respond to that one? I was thinking "Damn straight". Any input?

Mooney
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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coolguy676767

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Originally posted by JMooney5115
Sorry to hijack your thread, but I didn't wanna start a new one with the same discussion.

I was at a friends house and met this girl a few hours before. I'm hitting on her, and doing kino. Then I put my arm around her, and she says "You're weird". I don't remember what I said, but it probably was'nt good. How should I respond to that one? I was thinking "Damn straight". Any input?

Mooney
Just be like, with a smile and being ****y "Well if by weird you mean intimidatingly good looking and cool, then damn straight I am the weirdest guy you will ever meet."
 

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Originally posted by eggnawgkid
Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
Try these:

1: "Jeez, I don't blame her... She has good taste in guys"
2: See 1 :p
3: "Oh, I know" in a sarcastic voice
OR
"NO I WONT SLEEP WITH YOU"
 
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