"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I respond to these?

eggnawgkid

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Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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One answer to all three, act like you know it baby. Ha! Assume the positive. If a girl says your hot look into her eyes and smile, think inside your head, d*mn right I'm hot.

P-S: If your friends don't respect you, get new ones.
 

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Originally posted by eggnawgkid
Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
1. 'Hey.... RESPECT!'
2. 'Woah mate, she's like my little sister, thats digusting'
3. 'Respect'
 

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How to respond to these? Like a man of course. :D
 

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Sorry to hijack your thread, but I didn't wanna start a new one with the same discussion.

I was at a friends house and met this girl a few hours before. I'm hitting on her, and doing kino. Then I put my arm around her, and she says "You're weird". I don't remember what I said, but it probably was'nt good. How should I respond to that one? I was thinking "Damn straight". Any input?

Mooney
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by JMooney5115
Sorry to hijack your thread, but I didn't wanna start a new one with the same discussion.

I was at a friends house and met this girl a few hours before. I'm hitting on her, and doing kino. Then I put my arm around her, and she says "You're weird". I don't remember what I said, but it probably was'nt good. How should I respond to that one? I was thinking "Damn straight". Any input?

Mooney
Just be like, with a smile and being ****y "Well if by weird you mean intimidatingly good looking and cool, then damn straight I am the weirdest guy you will ever meet."
 

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Originally posted by eggnawgkid
Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
Try these:

1: "Jeez, I don't blame her... She has good taste in guys"
2: See 1 :p
3: "Oh, I know" in a sarcastic voice
OR
"NO I WONT SLEEP WITH YOU"
 
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