"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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One answer to all three, act like you know it baby. Ha! Assume the positive. If a girl says your hot look into her eyes and smile, think inside your head, d*mn right I'm hot.

P-S: If your friends don't respect you, get new ones.
 
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Originally posted by eggnawgkid
Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
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1. 'Hey.... RESPECT!'
2. 'Woah mate, she's like my little sister, thats digusting'
3. 'Respect'
 
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How to respond to these? Like a man of course. :D
 
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Sorry to hijack your thread, but I didn't wanna start a new one with the same discussion.

I was at a friends house and met this girl a few hours before. I'm hitting on her, and doing kino. Then I put my arm around her, and she says "You're weird". I don't remember what I said, but it probably was'nt good. How should I respond to that one? I was thinking "Damn straight". Any input?

Mooney
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by JMooney5115
Sorry to hijack your thread, but I didn't wanna start a new one with the same discussion.

I was at a friends house and met this girl a few hours before. I'm hitting on her, and doing kino. Then I put my arm around her, and she says "You're weird". I don't remember what I said, but it probably was'nt good. How should I respond to that one? I was thinking "Damn straight". Any input?

Mooney
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Just be like, with a smile and being ****y "Well if by weird you mean intimidatingly good looking and cool, then damn straight I am the weirdest guy you will ever meet."
 
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Originally posted by eggnawgkid
Alright I've got a couple situations that I don't know how to respond to properly and I was hoping you DJ's could help me out.

1. There's a group of us talking and one of my friends in it says that a girl also in it likes me (when I have a feeling she does).

2. Same as #1 but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me.

3. A girl tells you you're hot/cute/etc.
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Try these:

1: "Jeez, I don't blame her... She has good taste in guys"
2: See 1 :p
3: "Oh, I know" in a sarcastic voice
OR
"NO I WONT SLEEP WITH YOU"
 
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