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(actually like 95% of the time, so statistic wise odds are against me)
As I said, excuse and mental gymnastic.

word gets around coworkers, and I have to work in that environment,
What word gets around that you have a ball asking a girl out?

You ask, and if the answer is negative, you say, "All good, no hard feelings," and you stay friendly.
 

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A hot coworker I kinda have a crush on is leaving in a few months and there's always energy between us; she also started following me on IG and interacts with me there sometimes, but we haven't hung out outside of work yet. If you were in my situation, would you pull any moves while she's still working at the company or you'd wait until she's out?
I'd wait until she was at least 100m away from the company building before jumping out of a bush.
 

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I've waited too long a few times to ask a woman out like this.

There's basically an expiration date on this.
 

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We got a good vibe going now, will ask her out before I fly for vacation in two weeks
 

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Didn't get the chance to ask her in person as I was too slammed, so will have to do it virtually. And just when I thought things couldn't get more complicated, my boss invites a small group of people (including her) to his house for a party in a few weeks, fml. Last goddamn thing I need right now is him to ask me how the situation with the ladies is, right in front of her. What would you guys do in my situation?
 
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Good Lord.

I didn't even know what my initial response was , but let me repeat in bolded letters;

Do not shyte where you eat.

Leave this woman TF alone. And now you even complain that " you gladly didn't make a move and listened to members here".

Unfncking-believable . Why is it so hard to simply focus on ANY other woman in the world, and use " deez nutz" to man up and ask ANy other woman out.

And when people ask you how you doing with the ladies you always say," I am good". Always. No novels about that your dryspell is so long that it can touch the celing.
 

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Do not shyte where you eat.

Leave this woman TF alone. And now you even complain that " you gladly didn't make a move and listened to members here".
I will, it'll be easier now that we won't work so close to each other anymore. Social media is the problem, that's fvcking the whole thing up
 

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I will, it'll be easier now that we won't work so close to each other anymore. Social media is the problem, that's fvcking the whole thing up
you're being wishy washy. Dont forget the parties your boss throws, right?

@We_ArE_VeNOM made a great thread about this. Read it.


Let me elaborate on my previous post. The moment you apply such a LAW ( like dont shyt where you eat) , you eliminate a whole lotta stress, regain and maintain focus on work AND on top of that might actually be seen as more attractive by women you deal with professionally.

Get other women from other venues. Takes the same 2 balls to get it done.
 
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