"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How Do I NOT Sleep With Her?

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Well, if you read my first thread here I mentioned that all girls ever want to do with me is sleep together (Which is great). Im just at the point where after a few years of friends and everyone calling me a prostitute and other wisecracks, I want to do some other things with chicks...

This brings me to now. I met a "new" girl over the weekend and we spoke last night. Randomly during the convo she asks what Im doing tomorrow after work (today). Anyways, I said we can get together and I'll think of something to do. She then says that we could just go back to my place and watch a DVD or listen to music...

How do I tell her I prefer to go out without looking like Im nuts???

I wouldnt mind hitting it later on tonight, but would prefer to do something of substance first...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tell her straight up that you are looking for something different from her then you ware from all the other relationships. She will fall to your knees. She'll love the honesty, and love you for being different. And on top of that you'll build enticipation for when it does happen...
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
tell her straight up that you are looking for something different from her then you ware from all the other relationships. She will fall to your knees. She'll love the honesty, and love you for being different. And on top of that you'll build enticipation for when it does happen...
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There in lies the problem though, lol.

I dont know that I want anything serious with her. I honestly enjoy a females company doing things (non-sexually) like dinner, plays, and all that other ****.
 
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Oh man...
what a horrible dilemma *sarcasm*

maybe you should become some *****es weak male friend? Would that satisfy your desire for friendship?
Or even better, tell chicks you're gay!
lol
 
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Originally posted by BigMike
Well, if you read my first thread here I mentioned that all girls ever want to do with me is sleep together (Which is great). Im just at the point where after a few years of friends and everyone calling me a prostitute and other wisecracks, I want to do some other things with chicks...

This brings me to now. I met a "new" girl over the weekend and we spoke last night. Randomly during the convo she asks what Im doing tomorrow after work (today). Anyways, I said we can get together and I'll think of something to do. She then says that we could just go back to my place and watch a DVD or listen to music...

How do I tell her I prefer to go out without looking like Im nuts???

I wouldnt mind hitting it later on tonight, but would prefer to do something of substance first...
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Just say 'No, let's go _____". is it that hard? youre the man, you lead.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: How Do I NOT Sleep With Her?

Originally posted by snintel
Just say 'No, let's go _____". is it that hard? youre the man, you lead.
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Which is what Im gonna do. Its funny that this is the only circumstances where Im worried of rejection.

After being the same way for so long, I feel like they dont think Im "going out to dinner with" material, lol.

Im losing it, I know.
 
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