"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, if you read my first thread here I mentioned that all girls ever want to do with me is sleep together (Which is great). Im just at the point where after a few years of friends and everyone calling me a prostitute and other wisecracks, I want to do some other things with chicks...

This brings me to now. I met a "new" girl over the weekend and we spoke last night. Randomly during the convo she asks what Im doing tomorrow after work (today). Anyways, I said we can get together and I'll think of something to do. She then says that we could just go back to my place and watch a DVD or listen to music...

How do I tell her I prefer to go out without looking like Im nuts???

I wouldnt mind hitting it later on tonight, but would prefer to do something of substance first...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tell her straight up that you are looking for something different from her then you ware from all the other relationships. She will fall to your knees. She'll love the honesty, and love you for being different. And on top of that you'll build enticipation for when it does happen...
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
tell her straight up that you are looking for something different from her then you ware from all the other relationships. She will fall to your knees. She'll love the honesty, and love you for being different. And on top of that you'll build enticipation for when it does happen...
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There in lies the problem though, lol.

I dont know that I want anything serious with her. I honestly enjoy a females company doing things (non-sexually) like dinner, plays, and all that other ****.
 
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Oh man...
what a horrible dilemma *sarcasm*

maybe you should become some *****es weak male friend? Would that satisfy your desire for friendship?
Or even better, tell chicks you're gay!
lol
 
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Originally posted by BigMike
Well, if you read my first thread here I mentioned that all girls ever want to do with me is sleep together (Which is great). Im just at the point where after a few years of friends and everyone calling me a prostitute and other wisecracks, I want to do some other things with chicks...

This brings me to now. I met a "new" girl over the weekend and we spoke last night. Randomly during the convo she asks what Im doing tomorrow after work (today). Anyways, I said we can get together and I'll think of something to do. She then says that we could just go back to my place and watch a DVD or listen to music...

How do I tell her I prefer to go out without looking like Im nuts???

I wouldnt mind hitting it later on tonight, but would prefer to do something of substance first...
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Just say 'No, let's go _____". is it that hard? youre the man, you lead.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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Re: Re: How Do I NOT Sleep With Her?

Originally posted by snintel
Just say 'No, let's go _____". is it that hard? youre the man, you lead.
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Which is what Im gonna do. Its funny that this is the only circumstances where Im worried of rejection.

After being the same way for so long, I feel like they dont think Im "going out to dinner with" material, lol.

Im losing it, I know.
 
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