"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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phil2015

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Hey

I'm wondering of there's anything I can do to improve my appearance or make myself look better?

I don't think highly if my appearance, but I'm contemplating putting a picture on here
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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btownbuck2012

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throw that pic up! :cool:
 

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You have courage, and you should.

Congrats. So do it
 

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In case you don't want your picture publicly available (which would be wise) you can send it on PM to those who request it. This forum is indexed by Google so it could turn up in search many many years into the future if you post it in a thread.

I'd want to see it though.

As I was wtiting this I see you shared it, if you remove that post and PM it instead it's fine. Google doesn't instantly index things.

Edit: That looks good, to be honest though there is a lack of typical masculine facial features. You can't do much about that and it shouldn't really stop you from attracting women. You probably have most to gain by working on your mindset/inner game.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

phil2015

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In case you don't want your picture publicly available (which would be wise) you can send it on PM to those who request it. This forum is indexed by Google so it could turn up in search many many years into the future if you post it in a thread.

I'd want to see it though.

As I was wtiting this I see you shared it, if you remove that post and PM it instead it's fine. Google doesn't instantly index things.

Edit: That looks good, to be honest though there is a lack of typical masculine facial features. You can't do much about that and it shouldn't really stop you from attracting women. You probably have most to gain by working on your mindset/inner game.

Cool, who can I pm it to?
 

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Decent enough. I would lose the lower beard line though, and keep the mustache, the beard line accentuates your unmasculine looking jaw line. Hair thicker on the sides will also help. Take the focus off your jaw. Possibly longer sideburns also.
 
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Cool, who can I pm it to?
Anyone really, my point was to not post it publicly in this thread where it may show up on Google searches linking you to this forum. Just in case you want to reduce the chance of anyone you know find out what you post here. Just send it to guys here interested in viewing it and they'll post their feedback in this thread.

Just a privacy tip, you can leave the link there if you want.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright looking dude, albeit a lil feminine. Like another recommended lose the beard. Its appears patchy and not very thick. It outlines your jaw which you shouldn't want in your case. Shave it to a stubble. Choose a better hairstyle for you face shape. Start lifting weights. You're fine.
 

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Agree with the comments above. Working on the shoulders, traps, and deltoids will help your figure.
 

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Find you good looking. If I had your look: I would add.. improve the bear... it looks childish or ''un-cared''... either remove or trim it well (barber might be good)... might want to build more shoulder muscle and upper chest.
^My thoughts exactly @phil2015 . But you're not a bad looking dude at all.
 
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