"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do I look?!?!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Those glasses make you look like you're from the 50s. Your skin is a little red. What's it from? Other than that if I were gay I'd hit it.
 
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Actually I am just trying to find out if I am an regular joe or a hunchback of Notre Damme. I'll whiten my teath at the dentist, cause I smile a lot and have a big smile.
I wear contacts 60-70 % of the time but actually every girl I've been with said she liked me more with glasses. But I feel better without them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lol, a regular guy over tha day and a womens rights fighter at nights, is it a plane, it it a rocket, is it a bird, no
it's



The Nerd.
 
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You look fine,I would change up the glasses and cut the hair a little shorter,but that's MY style not YOURS. Do as you please. By the way one of the hottest chicks I know,well her husband just happens to look like you and wear the same style glasses,just food for thought.
 
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Your complextion isnt great. I would go with redoing the hair. Your cheeks seem well red for some reason.

However dude you are not ugly. Your not brad pitt either....but you dont need to be. TRUST ME
 
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As for the hair, youre right, I haven't cut my hair for 3 weeks so It's time to cut it again.
 
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And the pics have been taken with a cell phone which I think distorts the pic a bit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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it looks very fluffy. Bit of styling wouldnt go a miss :woo:
 
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I consider myself face-wise a 6.5-7(totally in the middle). But since I'm 6'1'' and weigh 190 pounds I am not totally lost. I would rate my body a 7.5-8.
 
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You should do fine.

Only thing, hard to tell from the pick, but like me, it looks like you have very thick eyebrows. Might want to look into that.


-E.Nigma
 
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Yes I have thick eyebrows but the thing is- they are already shortened and the unibrow removed. Anyway- look at this guy;), they're the same;)
No, I am not fishing for compliments, I was talking online with this girl and sent her this shi tty pic (I KNOW it's ****ty, but what fuk it)- and she said- let's better not meet.
So now I took better ones, but I was wondering if I an ugly or normal. I guess now that I'm normal looking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude, first impressions/appearances are everything. You dont even look confident in that picture. HOW you look is more important then WHAT you look like.
 
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I know but if I put on my normal look, I look like I'm gonna kill someone , unless I'm smiling, so I have to put a puppy look.
But here's one I'm "normal" and smiling
 
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Dude, forget what you know and listen to the people here with experience. Hell, youve been around here since 2003 like me, you should have more things figured out by now. Clean your face up with some good nutrogena face wash, get some lotions, etc.

Smile and look into the camera not pouty like a woman. A sly grin would do wonders
 
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You are above average BUT:

I think the background to the pics lets them down.

Your 'look' as other posters have mentioned does not scream confidence. Great news is you can work on that.

It might just be she was turned off because you don't fit her architype in terms of 'tribal belonging' than any actual physical issue.
 
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Charm said:
Dude, forget what you know and listen to the people here with experience. Hell, youve been around here since 2003 like me, you should have more things figured out by now. Clean your face up with some good nutrogena face wash, get some lotions, etc.

Smile and look into the camera not pouty like a woman. A sly grin would do wonders
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I use face products, so my face is even colour and not shining. But not on the pic:(

I edited my previous post. What do you say.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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