Last year I did one of the dumbest things I’ve done in my life and dated a co-worker. It lasted about seven weeks. I had no idea what I was doing and acted weak, and she tossed me aside. She was the biggest crush and worst oneitis of my life and I was very butthurt when the rejection came, of which she is well aware thanks to my erratic behavior. I initially made the mistake of accepting a LJBF’ing and beta orbited her for several weeks post-rejection, destroying any remaining resoect she had for me. Where we left off, we were “friends,” although I did finally wise up and cut ties. I’ve had no contact with her for seven months. I know I’ll never hear from her again and have 100% let her go. I left our workplace in July and am now interested in returning. The question is how do I maintain the spirit of no contact in a setting where I’ll run into her regularly and probably have to deal with her at least occasionally (she now works in a different department, so I won’t have to see her nearly as much as I used to). She is very social and I expect her to try to chat me up at some point. She has rejected many men from the office and is chatty and friendly with all of the little douche bags. I have no problem being polite and professional and exchanging pleasantries, but other than that, I want no contact with her. Please advise me on how to handle myself with her.
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