"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

How do I just be friends?

zack77766

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2007
Messages
116
Reaction score
0
This girl I like has a gf that goes to my school. Im not sure if that girl still likes me but oh well. Im pretty sure if I be friends with that girl my crush will be impressed. the problem is I dont want to seem too interested in the friend. Should I mention my crush (How can I do so?)? Should I say something like hey, you're (my crush's name) friend!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Stéphane

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
505
Reaction score
4
Dude, just ask your crush out. It's not the end of the world if she says no.
 

wavejams007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
876
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
jacksonville, FL
how bout you be friends with both of them, and stop trying to do stuff just to impress her. If you know what you are worth, than act like it, and she will catch on. also, see the movie hitch. Romance aside, the movie had a couple good tips, and one of them pertained to getting to know a girl's best friend.
 

sam3083

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2007
Messages
232
Reaction score
2
Pick one of the two above posts and do one of them.

No ifs, buts, or modification. Do one one of them right now.

Take action and you'll sleep better
 
Top