"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I just be friends?

zack77766

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This girl I like has a gf that goes to my school. Im not sure if that girl still likes me but oh well. Im pretty sure if I be friends with that girl my crush will be impressed. the problem is I dont want to seem too interested in the friend. Should I mention my crush (How can I do so?)? Should I say something like hey, you're (my crush's name) friend!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Stéphane

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Dude, just ask your crush out. It's not the end of the world if she says no.
 

wavejams007

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how bout you be friends with both of them, and stop trying to do stuff just to impress her. If you know what you are worth, than act like it, and she will catch on. also, see the movie hitch. Romance aside, the movie had a couple good tips, and one of them pertained to getting to know a girl's best friend.
 

sam3083

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Pick one of the two above posts and do one of them.

No ifs, buts, or modification. Do one one of them right now.

Take action and you'll sleep better
 
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