"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do I just be friends?

zack77766

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This girl I like has a gf that goes to my school. Im not sure if that girl still likes me but oh well. Im pretty sure if I be friends with that girl my crush will be impressed. the problem is I dont want to seem too interested in the friend. Should I mention my crush (How can I do so?)? Should I say something like hey, you're (my crush's name) friend!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stéphane

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Dude, just ask your crush out. It's not the end of the world if she says no.
 

wavejams007

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how bout you be friends with both of them, and stop trying to do stuff just to impress her. If you know what you are worth, than act like it, and she will catch on. also, see the movie hitch. Romance aside, the movie had a couple good tips, and one of them pertained to getting to know a girl's best friend.
 

sam3083

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Pick one of the two above posts and do one of them.

No ifs, buts, or modification. Do one one of them right now.

Take action and you'll sleep better
 
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