"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How Do I Help Her Move On?

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Juggalo

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There's this girl that I like and she likes me, too.

Her and her boyfriend are taking some time apart right now. He was the one to suggest it. He wants to figure out what he wants to do with his life and all...this isn't the first time he's done this with her.

I think her and I would make a good couple. Thing is...I don't have a job and/or a car. Her boyfriend now has both a car and a job.

She said that she wants to move on from this guy. We both like each other. What should I do to help her move on? I've done/said things and I think it's helped...

Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why does a car matter? If she's into that, get the hell away.


and give her a month, and then ask her out.
 
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Usually, being able to take your girlfriend out to places instead of getting a ride from mommy is a plus.


Never compete for a girl. There are plenty just like her. Shes nothing special, dont treat her like she is.

If you disagree with me. Try to give me a reason first.
 
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Originally posted by Jester

Never compete for a girl. There are plenty just like her. Shes nothing special, dont treat her like she is.

If you disagree with me. Try to give me a reason first.
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I don't disagree and I'm not going to compete for her. It's not her...it's just me. She has this boyfriend with a job and a car...then she goes to me who has neither? See?

I'll give it a month. Last night we talked on the phone for an hour and a half. I know that's kind of a no no...but I'm not going to go out on a date with her right now....so I made that exception.
 
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