"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How Do I Help Her Move On?

Juggalo

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There's this girl that I like and she likes me, too.

Her and her boyfriend are taking some time apart right now. He was the one to suggest it. He wants to figure out what he wants to do with his life and all...this isn't the first time he's done this with her.

I think her and I would make a good couple. Thing is...I don't have a job and/or a car. Her boyfriend now has both a car and a job.

She said that she wants to move on from this guy. We both like each other. What should I do to help her move on? I've done/said things and I think it's helped...

Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bling

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Why does a car matter? If she's into that, get the hell away.


and give her a month, and then ask her out.
 

Jester

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Usually, being able to take your girlfriend out to places instead of getting a ride from mommy is a plus.


Never compete for a girl. There are plenty just like her. Shes nothing special, dont treat her like she is.

If you disagree with me. Try to give me a reason first.
 

Juggalo

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Originally posted by Jester

Never compete for a girl. There are plenty just like her. Shes nothing special, dont treat her like she is.

If you disagree with me. Try to give me a reason first.
I don't disagree and I'm not going to compete for her. It's not her...it's just me. She has this boyfriend with a job and a car...then she goes to me who has neither? See?

I'll give it a month. Last night we talked on the phone for an hour and a half. I know that's kind of a no no...but I'm not going to go out on a date with her right now....so I made that exception.
 
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