Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I handle groups?

zack77766

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This girl seems interested in me already. But she usually isnt alone and the group ranges from 1-4 (not including herself) w/ females or males. I dont really think it would be cool to ask for her number even if shes interested in front of her friends.......
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JDA70

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You got 3 options as I see it.
1. Ask her for her e-mail and number in
front of everyone and not care
what the other people think.
2. Get her isolated and ask for the e-mail and number.
3. Do nothing.

Your thoughts?
 

LostAndConfused

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Maybe this group thing should be addressed in general, as women frequently travel in groups...picking and singling out the one you desire without the others c*ckblocking you is hard.
 

arqz4

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man it's harder, you gotta analyse the circunstances

i was gettin some lunch the other day, and one hb 9.0 (for me of course) was givin' clear signals, however she was with her mom!!!

i just coudn't do it, its a pair not a group, but it shows the hardships when dealing with cold/almost cold approach...

i would have to have major confidence to get both, since i would have to include her mom and make both feel nice... i will some day be able to that
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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