"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I handle groups?

zack77766

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This girl seems interested in me already. But she usually isnt alone and the group ranges from 1-4 (not including herself) w/ females or males. I dont really think it would be cool to ask for her number even if shes interested in front of her friends.......
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JDA70

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You got 3 options as I see it.
1. Ask her for her e-mail and number in
front of everyone and not care
what the other people think.
2. Get her isolated and ask for the e-mail and number.
3. Do nothing.

Your thoughts?
 

LostAndConfused

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Maybe this group thing should be addressed in general, as women frequently travel in groups...picking and singling out the one you desire without the others c*ckblocking you is hard.
 

arqz4

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man it's harder, you gotta analyse the circunstances

i was gettin some lunch the other day, and one hb 9.0 (for me of course) was givin' clear signals, however she was with her mom!!!

i just coudn't do it, its a pair not a group, but it shows the hardships when dealing with cold/almost cold approach...

i would have to have major confidence to get both, since i would have to include her mom and make both feel nice... i will some day be able to that
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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