"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do I handle groups?

zack77766

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This girl seems interested in me already. But she usually isnt alone and the group ranges from 1-4 (not including herself) w/ females or males. I dont really think it would be cool to ask for her number even if shes interested in front of her friends.......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JDA70

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You got 3 options as I see it.
1. Ask her for her e-mail and number in
front of everyone and not care
what the other people think.
2. Get her isolated and ask for the e-mail and number.
3. Do nothing.

Your thoughts?
 

LostAndConfused

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Maybe this group thing should be addressed in general, as women frequently travel in groups...picking and singling out the one you desire without the others c*ckblocking you is hard.
 

arqz4

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man it's harder, you gotta analyse the circunstances

i was gettin some lunch the other day, and one hb 9.0 (for me of course) was givin' clear signals, however she was with her mom!!!

i just coudn't do it, its a pair not a group, but it shows the hardships when dealing with cold/almost cold approach...

i would have to have major confidence to get both, since i would have to include her mom and make both feel nice... i will some day be able to that
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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