"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I get this girl to show me her goodies on cam?

SeymourCake

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I teased her, and she smiled, blush as I showed my body but she was a bit shy to show her goodies. She showed me her tattoos (pelvis area, the side of both her ribs), was once naked but didn't show me anything.

I showed her my body, glimpse of my penis, got down to my boxers and showed my body comfortably as I was feeling good about myself. She showed her "long tongue" to me when she asked if I wanted to see it.

After it was all said it done, she made comments saying how I look like a pro and she asked me how many women I slept with, and I asked her to guess and she said 4350 women lol. I responded saying not too many...Only the special ones deserve this.

But why didn't she show me hers? Was she not comfortable with her body?

She's in Toronto, Canada and I'm in Texas, U.S by the way.

We talked on the phone for less than 5 mins because she wanted to hear my voice and she said I sounded sexy but she was whispering because she had people sleeping so she had to quiet down.

Also, I think she's currently at her aunts house because she's planning on moving to a new house in a couple of days. I guess she doesn't feel comfortable flirting sexually on cam in someone elses house? What do you guys think?

Bonus: This is her... http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/713/22279519.jpg/#
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SeymourCake

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IamJosan said:
Don't show yours first man!

NOOOO I SCREWED UP!!!.. FUKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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dude, she just played you. She teased you by showing you NOTHING - she knew it would leave you wanting more - she got everything, you got nothing.

I know girls like this, they just like to tease guys - they like the sexual attention they get from talking dirty/showing a little skin. You won't get anything from them AT ALL unless you can beat them at their own game.
 

SeymourCake

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bankai said:
dude, she just played you. She teased you by showing you NOTHING - she knew it would leave you wanting more - she got everything, you got nothing.

I know girls like this, they just like to tease guys - they like the sexual attention they get from talking dirty/showing a little skin. You won't get anything from them AT ALL unless you can beat them at their own game.

Yeah, she did say she was a teaser before...Jeez...I guess I was beaten...Oh well...I'll wait in a couple of days to see if she's willing to show them, if not, then it's time for me to move on.

Any advice how to beat them in their own game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SeymourCake

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hmmm
 

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Depends. is she low self esteem? Be direct. Call her out. Tell her to get her kit out or STFU. Be a jerk. wwjd? what would jerks do?
 

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Depends. is she low self esteem? Be direct. Call her out. Tell her to get her kit out or STFU. Be a jerk. wwjd? what would jerks do?
 

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I'm not sure if she's low self esteem...I'll give it a risk and call her out the next time we chat.
 

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Dude, your body is now all over every gay site on the Web. Thanks for making me smile.

I don't care if your nickname is "Tripod", the only place you should be naked is in the bathroom. Just go checkout gay websites. Please don't tell me that all those males really knew they were being filmed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQQB03Xap6o
Here is hoping that you are as hot as these two guys. Be my guest and get rid of all those extra and unneeded clothes if you are. :woo:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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