"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do I get this girl to show me her goodies on cam?

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I teased her, and she smiled, blush as I showed my body but she was a bit shy to show her goodies. She showed me her tattoos (pelvis area, the side of both her ribs), was once naked but didn't show me anything.

I showed her my body, glimpse of my penis, got down to my boxers and showed my body comfortably as I was feeling good about myself. She showed her "long tongue" to me when she asked if I wanted to see it.

After it was all said it done, she made comments saying how I look like a pro and she asked me how many women I slept with, and I asked her to guess and she said 4350 women lol. I responded saying not too many...Only the special ones deserve this.

But why didn't she show me hers? Was she not comfortable with her body?

She's in Toronto, Canada and I'm in Texas, U.S by the way.

We talked on the phone for less than 5 mins because she wanted to hear my voice and she said I sounded sexy but she was whispering because she had people sleeping so she had to quiet down.

Also, I think she's currently at her aunts house because she's planning on moving to a new house in a couple of days. I guess she doesn't feel comfortable flirting sexually on cam in someone elses house? What do you guys think?

Bonus: This is her... http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/713/22279519.jpg/#
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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IamJosan said:
Don't show yours first man!

NOOOO I SCREWED UP!!!.. FUKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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dude, she just played you. She teased you by showing you NOTHING - she knew it would leave you wanting more - she got everything, you got nothing.

I know girls like this, they just like to tease guys - they like the sexual attention they get from talking dirty/showing a little skin. You won't get anything from them AT ALL unless you can beat them at their own game.
 

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bankai said:
dude, she just played you. She teased you by showing you NOTHING - she knew it would leave you wanting more - she got everything, you got nothing.

I know girls like this, they just like to tease guys - they like the sexual attention they get from talking dirty/showing a little skin. You won't get anything from them AT ALL unless you can beat them at their own game.

Yeah, she did say she was a teaser before...Jeez...I guess I was beaten...Oh well...I'll wait in a couple of days to see if she's willing to show them, if not, then it's time for me to move on.

Any advice how to beat them in their own game?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hmmm
 

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Depends. is she low self esteem? Be direct. Call her out. Tell her to get her kit out or STFU. Be a jerk. wwjd? what would jerks do?
 

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Depends. is she low self esteem? Be direct. Call her out. Tell her to get her kit out or STFU. Be a jerk. wwjd? what would jerks do?
 

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I'm not sure if she's low self esteem...I'll give it a risk and call her out the next time we chat.
 

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Dude, your body is now all over every gay site on the Web. Thanks for making me smile.

I don't care if your nickname is "Tripod", the only place you should be naked is in the bathroom. Just go checkout gay websites. Please don't tell me that all those males really knew they were being filmed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQQB03Xap6o
Here is hoping that you are as hot as these two guys. Be my guest and get rid of all those extra and unneeded clothes if you are. :woo:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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