"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do I get this girl to show me her goodies on cam?

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I teased her, and she smiled, blush as I showed my body but she was a bit shy to show her goodies. She showed me her tattoos (pelvis area, the side of both her ribs), was once naked but didn't show me anything.

I showed her my body, glimpse of my penis, got down to my boxers and showed my body comfortably as I was feeling good about myself. She showed her "long tongue" to me when she asked if I wanted to see it.

After it was all said it done, she made comments saying how I look like a pro and she asked me how many women I slept with, and I asked her to guess and she said 4350 women lol. I responded saying not too many...Only the special ones deserve this.

But why didn't she show me hers? Was she not comfortable with her body?

She's in Toronto, Canada and I'm in Texas, U.S by the way.

We talked on the phone for less than 5 mins because she wanted to hear my voice and she said I sounded sexy but she was whispering because she had people sleeping so she had to quiet down.

Also, I think she's currently at her aunts house because she's planning on moving to a new house in a couple of days. I guess she doesn't feel comfortable flirting sexually on cam in someone elses house? What do you guys think?

Bonus: This is her... http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/713/22279519.jpg/#
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IamJosan said:
Don't show yours first man!
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NOOOO I SCREWED UP!!!.. FUKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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dude, she just played you. She teased you by showing you NOTHING - she knew it would leave you wanting more - she got everything, you got nothing.

I know girls like this, they just like to tease guys - they like the sexual attention they get from talking dirty/showing a little skin. You won't get anything from them AT ALL unless you can beat them at their own game.
 
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bankai said:
dude, she just played you. She teased you by showing you NOTHING - she knew it would leave you wanting more - she got everything, you got nothing.

I know girls like this, they just like to tease guys - they like the sexual attention they get from talking dirty/showing a little skin. You won't get anything from them AT ALL unless you can beat them at their own game.
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Yeah, she did say she was a teaser before...Jeez...I guess I was beaten...Oh well...I'll wait in a couple of days to see if she's willing to show them, if not, then it's time for me to move on.

Any advice how to beat them in their own game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hmmm
 
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Depends. is she low self esteem? Be direct. Call her out. Tell her to get her kit out or STFU. Be a jerk. wwjd? what would jerks do?
 
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Depends. is she low self esteem? Be direct. Call her out. Tell her to get her kit out or STFU. Be a jerk. wwjd? what would jerks do?
 
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I'm not sure if she's low self esteem...I'll give it a risk and call her out the next time we chat.
 
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Dude, your body is now all over every gay site on the Web. Thanks for making me smile.

I don't care if your nickname is "Tripod", the only place you should be naked is in the bathroom. Just go checkout gay websites. Please don't tell me that all those males really knew they were being filmed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQQB03Xap6o
Here is hoping that you are as hot as these two guys. Be my guest and get rid of all those extra and unneeded clothes if you are. :woo:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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