"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I get rid of her??

mikeyb

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I broke up with my gf in July for a few reasons, the main one being that she blackmailed me into giving her money after we had a big fight.

She begged me to get back together with her and paid me back the money I gave her, even after I told her that was it and I wouldn't see her anymore. Then I left for the summer and she stopped calling little by little.

Fast forward to today - she shows up at my place and says I lent her some money about a year ago and she wants to pay me back. A) It wasn't much money and I didn't even remember lending it to her B) WTF is she doing?? She knows I don't want to get back together with her, and I certainly wouldn't have come after her for a few bucks.

Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I can't help being a little pissed right now. Although I told her not to contact me when I broke up with her, it took her the better part of the summer to obey and now she's just popped up again. How do I get rid of her??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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game.r

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mikeyb said:
I broke up with my gf in July for a few reasons, the main one being that she blackmailed me into giving her money after we had a big fight.

She begged me to get back together with her and paid me back the money I gave her, even after I told her that was it and I wouldn't see her anymore. Then I left for the summer and she stopped calling little by little.

Fast forward to today - she shows up at my place and says I lent her some money about a year ago and she wants to pay me back. A) It wasn't much money and I didn't even remember lending it to her B) WTF is she doing?? She knows I don't want to get back together with her, and I certainly wouldn't have come after her for a few bucks.

Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I can't help being a little pissed right now. Although I told her not to contact me when I broke up with her, it took her the better part of the summer to obey and now she's just popped up again. How do I get rid of her??
Am i missing something?

Take your money, say thanks and close the door... If you were stupid enough to let her inside then ask her to leave.
 

mikeyb

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That's what I did.

But if you were her, why would you pay me back, just like that? What would you stand to gain? I don't think I've seen the end of her and that's what bothers me.
 

Da Realist

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mikeyb said:
That's what I did.

But if you were her, why would you pay me back, just like that? What would you stand to gain? I don't think I've seen the end of her and that's what bothers me.
Either you broke her or it's just a ploy. And you can't break crazy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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