"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I get rid of her??

mikeyb

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I broke up with my gf in July for a few reasons, the main one being that she blackmailed me into giving her money after we had a big fight.

She begged me to get back together with her and paid me back the money I gave her, even after I told her that was it and I wouldn't see her anymore. Then I left for the summer and she stopped calling little by little.

Fast forward to today - she shows up at my place and says I lent her some money about a year ago and she wants to pay me back. A) It wasn't much money and I didn't even remember lending it to her B) WTF is she doing?? She knows I don't want to get back together with her, and I certainly wouldn't have come after her for a few bucks.

Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I can't help being a little pissed right now. Although I told her not to contact me when I broke up with her, it took her the better part of the summer to obey and now she's just popped up again. How do I get rid of her??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mikeyb said:
I broke up with my gf in July for a few reasons, the main one being that she blackmailed me into giving her money after we had a big fight.

She begged me to get back together with her and paid me back the money I gave her, even after I told her that was it and I wouldn't see her anymore. Then I left for the summer and she stopped calling little by little.

Fast forward to today - she shows up at my place and says I lent her some money about a year ago and she wants to pay me back. A) It wasn't much money and I didn't even remember lending it to her B) WTF is she doing?? She knows I don't want to get back together with her, and I certainly wouldn't have come after her for a few bucks.

Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I can't help being a little pissed right now. Although I told her not to contact me when I broke up with her, it took her the better part of the summer to obey and now she's just popped up again. How do I get rid of her??
Am i missing something?

Take your money, say thanks and close the door... If you were stupid enough to let her inside then ask her to leave.
 

mikeyb

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That's what I did.

But if you were her, why would you pay me back, just like that? What would you stand to gain? I don't think I've seen the end of her and that's what bothers me.
 

Da Realist

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mikeyb said:
That's what I did.

But if you were her, why would you pay me back, just like that? What would you stand to gain? I don't think I've seen the end of her and that's what bothers me.
Either you broke her or it's just a ploy. And you can't break crazy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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