How do I get rid of her??

[mikeyb]

I broke up with my gf in July for a few reasons, the main one being that she blackmailed me into giving her money after we had a big fight.

She begged me to get back together with her and paid me back the money I gave her, even after I told her that was it and I wouldn't see her anymore. Then I left for the summer and she stopped calling little by little.

Fast forward to today - she shows up at my place and says I lent her some money about a year ago and she wants to pay me back. A) It wasn't much money and I didn't even remember lending it to her B) WTF is she doing?? She knows I don't want to get back together with her, and I certainly wouldn't have come after her for a few bucks.

Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I can't help being a little pissed right now. Although I told her not to contact me when I broke up with her, it took her the better part of the summer to obey and now she's just popped up again. How do I get rid of her??

 

[game.r]

I broke up with my gf in July for a few reasons, the main one being that she blackmailed me into giving her money after we had a big fight.

She begged me to get back together with her and paid me back the money I gave her, even after I told her that was it and I wouldn't see her anymore. Then I left for the summer and she stopped calling little by little.

Fast forward to today - she shows up at my place and says I lent her some money about a year ago and she wants to pay me back. A) It wasn't much money and I didn't even remember lending it to her B) WTF is she doing?? She knows I don't want to get back together with her, and I certainly wouldn't have come after her for a few bucks.

Sorry if this sounds like a rant but I can't help being a little pissed right now. Although I told her not to contact me when I broke up with her, it took her the better part of the summer to obey and now she's just popped up again. How do I get rid of her??

Am i missing something?

Take your money, say thanks and close the door... If you were stupid enough to let her inside then ask her to leave.

 

[mikeyb]

That's what I did.

But if you were her, why would you pay me back, just like that? What would you stand to gain? I don't think I've seen the end of her and that's what bothers me.

 

[Da Realist]

That's what I did.

But if you were her, why would you pay me back, just like that? What would you stand to gain? I don't think I've seen the end of her and that's what bothers me.

Either you broke her or it's just a ploy. And you can't break crazy.

 

[kingy]

pay her, her money. whats the problem.

shes comes back call the police.

stop creating drama in your life young man, there are damsals to be rescued ;-)