"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do I get over sexual shame and performance anxiety

Pacman50

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There’s this woman from work that I want to **** and she wants to **** but i get nervous to invite her to my place. I dread her coming over and when the time comes i can’t perform. Everytime that happens it’s such an awkward feeling. Is this normal or is there anyway I can get over this? This has always happened throughout my 20s. After I get comfortable with a girl it doesn’t happen anymore but every new girl it happens. I feel like I’m getting too old for this to keep happening. Once a woman comes over sex is pretty much expected.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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@Pacman50 "There’s this woman from work that I want to **** and she wants to **** but i get nervous to invite her to my place"

The fear you're experiencing is generated by the more cagey aspect of your psyche, which recognizes:

"Bedding my colleagues is more suicidal than walking into The BET Hip Awards, disguised as Nick Fuentes"
 

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@Pacman50 "There’s this woman from work that I want to **** and she wants to **** but i get nervous to invite her to my place"

The fear you're experiencing is generated by the more cagey aspect of your psyche, which recognizes:

"Bedding my colleagues is more suicidal than walking into The BET Hip Awards, disguised as Nick Fuentes"
I’m changing jobs in 2 weeks lol but trust me I learned that lesson before
 
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