"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do I get over sexual shame and performance anxiety

Pacman50

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There’s this woman from work that I want to **** and she wants to **** but i get nervous to invite her to my place. I dread her coming over and when the time comes i can’t perform. Everytime that happens it’s such an awkward feeling. Is this normal or is there anyway I can get over this? This has always happened throughout my 20s. After I get comfortable with a girl it doesn’t happen anymore but every new girl it happens. I feel like I’m getting too old for this to keep happening. Once a woman comes over sex is pretty much expected.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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@Pacman50 "There’s this woman from work that I want to **** and she wants to **** but i get nervous to invite her to my place"

The fear you're experiencing is generated by the more cagey aspect of your psyche, which recognizes:

"Bedding my colleagues is more suicidal than walking into The BET Hip Awards, disguised as Nick Fuentes"
 

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@Pacman50 "There’s this woman from work that I want to **** and she wants to **** but i get nervous to invite her to my place"

The fear you're experiencing is generated by the more cagey aspect of your psyche, which recognizes:

"Bedding my colleagues is more suicidal than walking into The BET Hip Awards, disguised as Nick Fuentes"
I’m changing jobs in 2 weeks lol but trust me I learned that lesson before
 
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