There’s this woman from work that I want to **** and she wants to **** but i get nervous to invite her to my place. I dread her coming over and when the time comes i can’t perform. Everytime that happens it’s such an awkward feeling. Is this normal or is there anyway I can get over this? This has always happened throughout my 20s. After I get comfortable with a girl it doesn’t happen anymore but every new girl it happens. I feel like I’m getting too old for this to keep happening. Once a woman comes over sex is pretty much expected.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How do I get over sexual shame and performance anxiety
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