"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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remember the first girl , well I didn't give up her. I think she was too serious about school to focus on guys because she was the valedictorian and all. I've also been keeping the texts short and clean and texting her like every 4 days. I've been trying to avoid contact and only talk to her if she says hey or something. I haven't gotten the chance to kino, but I maintain eye contact and will get really close to her at some points. We were invited to a party and it was just me, her and like three other girls, and the most recent thing she texted me first was if I had a great time and stuff. Well, I want to get in this girl's pants this summer, and we're going to the same college. What do?

Also she texted me first before the party and after the party
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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another one with too much texting!

Every 4 days might not seem like much but consider the fact you are not actually seeing her, this is a lot of aimless contact

And then you text her but don;t make eye contact in person?

Think about what message this gives. It says you are comfortable with texts but weak in person. You take the lead when it is a text, but are unable to do so in real life.

is this a good look?
 
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Man I should have stated this. We hung at school everyday alone so I don't think she thinks that. She also invited me to do it. Well she's always with her friends so I'ts hard for me to say hi without me looking desperate.
 
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You shouldn't be texting someone that you feel unable to say hi to in public, this just reinforces the fact you are unable to do so in public
 
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I say hi if we happen to walk past each other and see each other. I won't say hi if she's across the room talking to her friends.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well school is over, so the only means of contact I have is phone. She doesn't like texting first, so I usually have to do it which bothers me.
 
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maybe you should ask her to go somewhere with you?

otherwise its just more aimless texting
 
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Is there anyway I can make it aim somewhere because I don't think this girl has had a bf throughout high school and she's like a 7 or 6
 
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