Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dont get down man! You're 16! there are still at least 2-3 growth spirts ahead of you! infact i was 5'5" before my junior year in high school, and after junior year i was 5'9"hell695 said:I have friends that are tall as hell in fact nearly all of the guys are taller then me it don't help. High school girls can be shallow as ****
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
well whats the typical rejection for you? you ask them out and they say "no, you're too short" ??hell695 said:thanks man u might be right i haven't grown since i was 13-14. But back then i was the tallest kid in my class so. but i really want to know is how to get girls to see past my height.
yea now that u mention it, my senior year (2yrs ago) one of the shortest guys in school was dating the prom queen and all the girls liked him... lol funny how that works out...Crazy Asian said:ur growth spurts will probably start up again in a while. I stopped growing for like 1.5 years, and now i just started growing again. Make sure you eat well and SLEEP.
But the most popular guy in my school/captain of soccer team/ every girl's dream is really short. I think his g/f is also a little taller than him. So just improve in other areas
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well not really. Basically any guy no matter how ugly or short can lay HB's if they have game because women don't care about looks as much as men.DJ Wrangler said:yea now that u mention it, my senior year (2yrs ago) one of the shortest guys in school was dating the prom queen and all the girls liked him... lol funny how that works out...
...or you'll end uip like wutangfinancial.wutangfinancial said:you need growth hormone, fast....
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yes well im looking to make the odds better and if i wasn't open to change i wouldn't be here by the way i have that desire for greatness it feels great besides im that much like master bates am IDilberto said:It's a numbers game. Keep asking. Keep on failing. When one finally says YES- your mission is accomplished.
yes because mini he-men are so sexy. wutuang's right it's dominice that makes it by way the micheal moon im 5'6 one other thing i don't have a confidence issue inside "i have great look so im at least a 7.5 to woman"Remulak said:Easy, work out and get ripped, women are just as shallow in terms of looks.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.