You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dont get down man! You're 16! there are still at least 2-3 growth spirts ahead of you! infact i was 5'5" before my junior year in high school, and after junior year i was 5'9"hell695 said:I have friends that are tall as hell in fact nearly all of the guys are taller then me it don't help. High school girls can be shallow as ****
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
well whats the typical rejection for you? you ask them out and they say "no, you're too short" ??hell695 said:thanks man u might be right i haven't grown since i was 13-14. But back then i was the tallest kid in my class so. but i really want to know is how to get girls to see past my height.
yea now that u mention it, my senior year (2yrs ago) one of the shortest guys in school was dating the prom queen and all the girls liked him... lol funny how that works out...Crazy Asian said:ur growth spurts will probably start up again in a while. I stopped growing for like 1.5 years, and now i just started growing again. Make sure you eat well and SLEEP.
But the most popular guy in my school/captain of soccer team/ every girl's dream is really short. I think his g/f is also a little taller than him. So just improve in other areas
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well not really. Basically any guy no matter how ugly or short can lay HB's if they have game because women don't care about looks as much as men.DJ Wrangler said:yea now that u mention it, my senior year (2yrs ago) one of the shortest guys in school was dating the prom queen and all the girls liked him... lol funny how that works out...
...or you'll end uip like wutangfinancial.wutangfinancial said:you need growth hormone, fast....
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
yes well im looking to make the odds better and if i wasn't open to change i wouldn't be here by the way i have that desire for greatness it feels great besides im that much like master bates am IDilberto said:It's a numbers game. Keep asking. Keep on failing. When one finally says YES- your mission is accomplished.
yes because mini he-men are so sexy. wutuang's right it's dominice that makes it by way the micheal moon im 5'6 one other thing i don't have a confidence issue inside "i have great look so im at least a 7.5 to woman"Remulak said:Easy, work out and get ripped, women are just as shallow in terms of looks.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.