"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do i get girls to stop rejecting me because I'm short

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How do i get girls to stop rejecting me because I'm shorter or the same height as allot of them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You can't man, you're in trouble.

Just don't lose your hair.
 

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I have friends that are tall as hell in fact nearly all of the guys are taller then me it don't help. High school girls can be shallow as ****
 

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I have friends that are tall as hell in fact nearly all of the guys are taller then me it don't help. High school girls can be shallow as ****
Dont get down man! You're 16! there are still at least 2-3 growth spirts ahead of you! infact i was 5'5" before my junior year in high school, and after junior year i was 5'9"

Im a 2nd year in college and now stand 6'

so dont fret buddy!
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thanks man u might be right i haven't grown since i was 13-14. But back then i was the tallest kid in my class so. but i really want to know is how to get girls to see past my height.
 

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thanks man u might be right i haven't grown since i was 13-14. But back then i was the tallest kid in my class so. but i really want to know is how to get girls to see past my height.
well whats the typical rejection for you? you ask them out and they say "no, you're too short" ??

but for starters be persistent... even if they reject you, dont cower and walk away with your tail tucked between your legs... keep going at it, show them have funny you are and how much fun they can have while they're around you! start deploying some strategy to have them associate fun when they're with you!
 

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ur growth spurts will probably start up again in a while. I stopped growing for like 1.5 years, and now i just started growing again. Make sure you eat well and SLEEP.

But the most popular guy in my school/captain of soccer team/ every girl's dream is really short. I think his g/f is also a little taller than him. So just improve in other areas
 

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Crazy Asian said:
ur growth spurts will probably start up again in a while. I stopped growing for like 1.5 years, and now i just started growing again. Make sure you eat well and SLEEP.

But the most popular guy in my school/captain of soccer team/ every girl's dream is really short. I think his g/f is also a little taller than him. So just improve in other areas
yea now that u mention it, my senior year (2yrs ago) one of the shortest guys in school was dating the prom queen and all the girls liked him... lol funny how that works out...
 

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How tall are you? You really shouldn't worry at 16, you're still going through puberty and still have time to grow....just make sure you get all your nutrients by eating healthy and getting esstential vitamans for growth like calcium, protien, Vitamin-D, Vitamin-A, etc...
Just because you're short doesn't mean you can't get girls, I know short guys that get the best of chicks...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJ Wrangler said:
yea now that u mention it, my senior year (2yrs ago) one of the shortest guys in school was dating the prom queen and all the girls liked him... lol funny how that works out...
Well not really. Basically any guy no matter how ugly or short can lay HB's if they have game because women don't care about looks as much as men.
 

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just so you no im 5'6 and maybe your about the other areas but I more trouble feel confident man when most guys tower over you(mind im workin on this alright and i feeling comfident since i become a dj) another thing i hate is girls say maybe or I'll think about instead of just telling you no
 

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well then although you feel confident it might not come off that way? you have to prove and show that your confident! like my previous post, one way is through persistence...

Its like writing class, my professor always was saying "dont tell me, show me!"
Show me how this character feels through passion and action! not just by typing "He felt very happy after...."

You cant just say you're confident (although that is one of the steps to getting their,) you must breakthrough and show everyone this through action(s)...
 

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You can make every excuse you want for yourself, but in the end, the only one preventing you from getting chicks isn't your body, it's YOU.

Are you willing to change? No?
Then you won't get girls.


Oh wait. Are you?

Start developing some airtight game. Be friendly and social. Watch lots of comedy. GO TO THE GYM.

Things will turn around before you know it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's a numbers game. Keep asking. Keep on failing. When one finally says YES- your mission is accomplished.
 

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It's a numbers game. Keep asking. Keep on failing. When one finally says YES- your mission is accomplished.
yes well im looking to make the odds better and if i wasn't open to change i wouldn't be here by the way i have that desire for greatness it feels great besides im that much like master bates am I
 

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To the original poster, who tall are you?

Several girls I've talked to have told me height doesn't matter as long as the guy is the same height or taller than she is.

Seeing how there's a ton of decent to hot girls that aren't tall, there's a lot to be positive about.
 

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Easy, work out and get ripped, women are just as shallow in terms of looks.
yes because mini he-men are so sexy. wutuang's right it's dominice that makes it by way the micheal moon im 5'6 one other thing i don't have a confidence issue inside "i have great look so im at least a 7.5 to woman"
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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