im a 10th grader. i have never had a girlfriend before and i also dont any friends and i cant get any no matter how har i try. im ugly, im not strong, im not funny, and i say stupid things and i have OCD. and the girl i like (that im losing interest in) doesnt like me even though im sure we would be good couple. im always stressed and bored, and i dont really like anybody else.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how do i get gf in high school?
- Thread starter evilyoshi
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NorwegianDJ
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Im gonne give you these:
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/409...s_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/6540127/Awaken_the_Giant_Within
**** dude. I used to not have a gf. There was a period where I barely had any friends (if you look at it through your perspective). I couldn't make new friends no matter how hard i tried (Not that I fvcking tried hard). I though I was ugly as **** (And I was always 5kg lighter than everyone due to chemo). I was DEFINATELY not strong or funny. I would say stupid things with my girly -pitched voice! I would cry in bed for weeks over this one girl. I was always bored apart from when I played games, stressed in social situations. I didn't really think much of people.
One thing is that the above wasn't fvcking true (it was only from my negative perspective!), another is that I CHANGED!
Now I've had a GF, and countless of girls. I have sooo many friends (yet very few close ones). I consider myself handsome (Take this from a guy with fvcked up teeth from chemo). I am strong (I started gymming consistently and fixed my diet and gained 15kg, then lost 7). I'm hilarious, I just am. I still say stupid sh1t, but not in a negative context. The girls I like usually likes me. I'm almost never stressed and bored (apart from when something happens that I can't control, I hate that). I love people, people are amazing.
It's all about perspective. Right now your references give you a negative view of the world. Until now, like most people, you are a product of your environment. YOU CAN CHANGE. I'm not gonna give you a step by step guide to improve yourself; just change your approach and make new empowering habits. You really are a product of your habits. Please read and watch the above, and please do the exercises, and please realize that there is no better time than now.
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/409...s_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/6540127/Awaken_the_Giant_Within
**** dude. I used to not have a gf. There was a period where I barely had any friends (if you look at it through your perspective). I couldn't make new friends no matter how hard i tried (Not that I fvcking tried hard). I though I was ugly as **** (And I was always 5kg lighter than everyone due to chemo). I was DEFINATELY not strong or funny. I would say stupid things with my girly -pitched voice! I would cry in bed for weeks over this one girl. I was always bored apart from when I played games, stressed in social situations. I didn't really think much of people.
One thing is that the above wasn't fvcking true (it was only from my negative perspective!), another is that I CHANGED!
Now I've had a GF, and countless of girls. I have sooo many friends (yet very few close ones). I consider myself handsome (Take this from a guy with fvcked up teeth from chemo). I am strong (I started gymming consistently and fixed my diet and gained 15kg, then lost 7). I'm hilarious, I just am. I still say stupid sh1t, but not in a negative context. The girls I like usually likes me. I'm almost never stressed and bored (apart from when something happens that I can't control, I hate that). I love people, people are amazing.
It's all about perspective. Right now your references give you a negative view of the world. Until now, like most people, you are a product of your environment. YOU CAN CHANGE. I'm not gonna give you a step by step guide to improve yourself; just change your approach and make new empowering habits. You really are a product of your habits. Please read and watch the above, and please do the exercises, and please realize that there is no better time than now.
Jack Wealthy
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everyone starts some where man. I started of as a virgin with a personality disorder as well, after about three months of serious work on myself I noticed I was way better... But nothing had really changed exceeeeepppttt.... I became positive and then confident... I'm me now 
Silly little things you say? Who cares, unless it's a serious gaff (everyone stops and looks at you) laugh it off and everyone else will. Worse comes to worse say sorry and/or walk away
The biggest players usually start badly: Mystery (virginity lost at 20-ish), Paul Janka (20-ish), Tucker Max (16), Russell Brand (16 and 17).
Silly little things you say? Who cares, unless it's a serious gaff (everyone stops and looks at you) laugh it off and everyone else will. Worse comes to worse say sorry and/or walk away The biggest players usually start badly: Mystery (virginity lost at 20-ish), Paul Janka (20-ish), Tucker Max (16), Russell Brand (16 and 17).