im a 10th grader. i have never had a girlfriend before and i also dont any friends and i cant get any no matter how har i try. im ugly, im not strong, im not funny, and i say stupid things and i have OCD. and the girl i like (that im losing interest in) doesnt like me even though im sure we would be good couple. im always stressed and bored, and i dont really like anybody else.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how do i get gf in high school?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
NorwegianDJ
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Im gonne give you these:
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/409...s_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/6540127/Awaken_the_Giant_Within
**** dude. I used to not have a gf. There was a period where I barely had any friends (if you look at it through your perspective). I couldn't make new friends no matter how hard i tried (Not that I fvcking tried hard). I though I was ugly as **** (And I was always 5kg lighter than everyone due to chemo). I was DEFINATELY not strong or funny. I would say stupid things with my girly -pitched voice! I would cry in bed for weeks over this one girl. I was always bored apart from when I played games, stressed in social situations. I didn't really think much of people.
One thing is that the above wasn't fvcking true (it was only from my negative perspective!), another is that I CHANGED!
Now I've had a GF, and countless of girls. I have sooo many friends (yet very few close ones). I consider myself handsome (Take this from a guy with fvcked up teeth from chemo). I am strong (I started gymming consistently and fixed my diet and gained 15kg, then lost 7). I'm hilarious, I just am. I still say stupid sh1t, but not in a negative context. The girls I like usually likes me. I'm almost never stressed and bored (apart from when something happens that I can't control, I hate that). I love people, people are amazing.
It's all about perspective. Right now your references give you a negative view of the world. Until now, like most people, you are a product of your environment. YOU CAN CHANGE. I'm not gonna give you a step by step guide to improve yourself; just change your approach and make new empowering habits. You really are a product of your habits. Please read and watch the above, and please do the exercises, and please realize that there is no better time than now.
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/409...s_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/6540127/Awaken_the_Giant_Within
**** dude. I used to not have a gf. There was a period where I barely had any friends (if you look at it through your perspective). I couldn't make new friends no matter how hard i tried (Not that I fvcking tried hard). I though I was ugly as **** (And I was always 5kg lighter than everyone due to chemo). I was DEFINATELY not strong or funny. I would say stupid things with my girly -pitched voice! I would cry in bed for weeks over this one girl. I was always bored apart from when I played games, stressed in social situations. I didn't really think much of people.
One thing is that the above wasn't fvcking true (it was only from my negative perspective!), another is that I CHANGED!
Now I've had a GF, and countless of girls. I have sooo many friends (yet very few close ones). I consider myself handsome (Take this from a guy with fvcked up teeth from chemo). I am strong (I started gymming consistently and fixed my diet and gained 15kg, then lost 7). I'm hilarious, I just am. I still say stupid sh1t, but not in a negative context. The girls I like usually likes me. I'm almost never stressed and bored (apart from when something happens that I can't control, I hate that). I love people, people are amazing.
It's all about perspective. Right now your references give you a negative view of the world. Until now, like most people, you are a product of your environment. YOU CAN CHANGE. I'm not gonna give you a step by step guide to improve yourself; just change your approach and make new empowering habits. You really are a product of your habits. Please read and watch the above, and please do the exercises, and please realize that there is no better time than now.
Jack Wealthy
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everyone starts some where man. I started of as a virgin with a personality disorder as well, after about three months of serious work on myself I noticed I was way better... But nothing had really changed exceeeeepppttt.... I became positive and then confident... I'm me now 
Silly little things you say? Who cares, unless it's a serious gaff (everyone stops and looks at you) laugh it off and everyone else will. Worse comes to worse say sorry and/or walk away
The biggest players usually start badly: Mystery (virginity lost at 20-ish), Paul Janka (20-ish), Tucker Max (16), Russell Brand (16 and 17).
Silly little things you say? Who cares, unless it's a serious gaff (everyone stops and looks at you) laugh it off and everyone else will. Worse comes to worse say sorry and/or walk away The biggest players usually start badly: Mystery (virginity lost at 20-ish), Paul Janka (20-ish), Tucker Max (16), Russell Brand (16 and 17).