im a 10th grader. i have never had a girlfriend before and i also dont any friends and i cant get any no matter how har i try. im ugly, im not strong, im not funny, and i say stupid things and i have OCD. and the girl i like (that im losing interest in) doesnt like me even though im sure we would be good couple. im always stressed and bored, and i dont really like anybody else.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how do i get gf in high school?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NorwegianDJ
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Im gonne give you these:
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/409...s_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/6540127/Awaken_the_Giant_Within
**** dude. I used to not have a gf. There was a period where I barely had any friends (if you look at it through your perspective). I couldn't make new friends no matter how hard i tried (Not that I fvcking tried hard). I though I was ugly as **** (And I was always 5kg lighter than everyone due to chemo). I was DEFINATELY not strong or funny. I would say stupid things with my girly -pitched voice! I would cry in bed for weeks over this one girl. I was always bored apart from when I played games, stressed in social situations. I didn't really think much of people.
One thing is that the above wasn't fvcking true (it was only from my negative perspective!), another is that I CHANGED!
Now I've had a GF, and countless of girls. I have sooo many friends (yet very few close ones). I consider myself handsome (Take this from a guy with fvcked up teeth from chemo). I am strong (I started gymming consistently and fixed my diet and gained 15kg, then lost 7). I'm hilarious, I just am. I still say stupid sh1t, but not in a negative context. The girls I like usually likes me. I'm almost never stressed and bored (apart from when something happens that I can't control, I hate that). I love people, people are amazing.
It's all about perspective. Right now your references give you a negative view of the world. Until now, like most people, you are a product of your environment. YOU CAN CHANGE. I'm not gonna give you a step by step guide to improve yourself; just change your approach and make new empowering habits. You really are a product of your habits. Please read and watch the above, and please do the exercises, and please realize that there is no better time than now.
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/409...s_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded_DVDs
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/6540127/Awaken_the_Giant_Within
**** dude. I used to not have a gf. There was a period where I barely had any friends (if you look at it through your perspective). I couldn't make new friends no matter how hard i tried (Not that I fvcking tried hard). I though I was ugly as **** (And I was always 5kg lighter than everyone due to chemo). I was DEFINATELY not strong or funny. I would say stupid things with my girly -pitched voice! I would cry in bed for weeks over this one girl. I was always bored apart from when I played games, stressed in social situations. I didn't really think much of people.
One thing is that the above wasn't fvcking true (it was only from my negative perspective!), another is that I CHANGED!
Now I've had a GF, and countless of girls. I have sooo many friends (yet very few close ones). I consider myself handsome (Take this from a guy with fvcked up teeth from chemo). I am strong (I started gymming consistently and fixed my diet and gained 15kg, then lost 7). I'm hilarious, I just am. I still say stupid sh1t, but not in a negative context. The girls I like usually likes me. I'm almost never stressed and bored (apart from when something happens that I can't control, I hate that). I love people, people are amazing.
It's all about perspective. Right now your references give you a negative view of the world. Until now, like most people, you are a product of your environment. YOU CAN CHANGE. I'm not gonna give you a step by step guide to improve yourself; just change your approach and make new empowering habits. You really are a product of your habits. Please read and watch the above, and please do the exercises, and please realize that there is no better time than now.
Jack Wealthy
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everyone starts some where man. I started of as a virgin with a personality disorder as well, after about three months of serious work on myself I noticed I was way better... But nothing had really changed exceeeeepppttt.... I became positive and then confident... I'm me now 
Silly little things you say? Who cares, unless it's a serious gaff (everyone stops and looks at you) laugh it off and everyone else will. Worse comes to worse say sorry and/or walk away
The biggest players usually start badly: Mystery (virginity lost at 20-ish), Paul Janka (20-ish), Tucker Max (16), Russell Brand (16 and 17).
Silly little things you say? Who cares, unless it's a serious gaff (everyone stops and looks at you) laugh it off and everyone else will. Worse comes to worse say sorry and/or walk away The biggest players usually start badly: Mystery (virginity lost at 20-ish), Paul Janka (20-ish), Tucker Max (16), Russell Brand (16 and 17).