Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Intercepter what are high glycemic carbs.Interceptor said:Drop your sugar and high glycemic carbs.
Keep the protein intake to 1.5 to 2 grams per pound.
Keep eating the small meals every three hours. Eat small snacks to satisfy hunger but don't bliat your belly.
No sugar, and low sodium. Both add to bloating and sugar adds water and sugar to fat cells, it hydrates them and makes them larger.
Keep your training loads the same as when you were lifting for mass, and adjust the poundage slightly as your strentgh decreases.
You'll lose some strength at first, but the fat will begin to strip away and you'll end up replcing the fat emass with muscle mass.
Don't look at the scale, look at you muscle separation. And the separation in your serratus and abdominals.
No sugar is the key here.
Drink ****loads of water though. And see if you can increase some fiber intake. Not too much though. But just enough so when youtake your dumps you clean out your insides and keep a flat belly.
Make sure you do a solid, sound ab program, at least two to three times a week. Once the fat comes off, you'll see the abs. It's fat loss, not ab development. But we want abs to be strong and developed to prepare for the fat loss.
So, remember, a 6 pack, means low body fat and no water retention.
Not doing endless hours of sit ups. It';s bodyfat and water underneath the skin.
Good luck.
hey buddy that stuff is not good for you and bedsides I do not like to do drugs. That stuff makes you parenoid.BlaKTooth said:Try cocaine.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sit-ups or crunches?Azmodan said:Yeah, a mixture of narcotics and large amounts of unweighted situps did the trick for me.