Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Intercepter what are high glycemic carbs.Interceptor said:Drop your sugar and high glycemic carbs.
Keep the protein intake to 1.5 to 2 grams per pound.
Keep eating the small meals every three hours. Eat small snacks to satisfy hunger but don't bliat your belly.
No sugar, and low sodium. Both add to bloating and sugar adds water and sugar to fat cells, it hydrates them and makes them larger.
Keep your training loads the same as when you were lifting for mass, and adjust the poundage slightly as your strentgh decreases.
You'll lose some strength at first, but the fat will begin to strip away and you'll end up replcing the fat emass with muscle mass.
Don't look at the scale, look at you muscle separation. And the separation in your serratus and abdominals.
No sugar is the key here.
Drink ****loads of water though. And see if you can increase some fiber intake. Not too much though. But just enough so when youtake your dumps you clean out your insides and keep a flat belly.
Make sure you do a solid, sound ab program, at least two to three times a week. Once the fat comes off, you'll see the abs. It's fat loss, not ab development. But we want abs to be strong and developed to prepare for the fat loss.
So, remember, a 6 pack, means low body fat and no water retention.
Not doing endless hours of sit ups. It';s bodyfat and water underneath the skin.
Good luck.
hey buddy that stuff is not good for you and bedsides I do not like to do drugs. That stuff makes you parenoid.BlaKTooth said:Try cocaine.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sit-ups or crunches?Azmodan said:Yeah, a mixture of narcotics and large amounts of unweighted situps did the trick for me.