"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do i fix this one...?

jenzos

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Well it seems ya'll give some good advice, let me explain my problem I have.

Okay to start the story, my friend got a girlfriend and she is super cool, so being the ass I am I have hooked up with about 5 of her friends in the past few weeks. She loves to tell them to chill with us and they always abide. So the problem is, in doing this, I made a nice little reputation of "the player, pimp" type guy. I should want this shouldnt I? But does it turn girls off and I think they know that I do this quite often, and they seem do the same thing. It seems as though they just want to hookup and then dont talk to me ever again haha.

How do i go about getting them all to want to hookup with me numerous times/want to go out with me?

Cliffnotes: basically, i hookup with plenty of girls, but I can't get to get the second time or third time. I want them to all want to do it again. etc. etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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08aisaac

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Well maybe you should instead of having sex with them as soon as hey want, make them wait for it. You seem to get plenty so you shouldn't mind making them wait. Or you could become extremely good in bed and then they will want to hook up with you again.
 

AC/DC

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First, it's not your fault you're a pimp player:D

God gave you skills, or you worked on them, and now you are what you are.

Why change that?

Instead, try focusing only on one at a time. Be friends with the rest, keep your intentions SECRET. Focus on that one, and now that you're not giving the other girls any attention, see what the result is. Some may like the lack of attention, others may want it back.

Remember, sh*t spreads quicker than a ho's legs, so keep everything under wraps.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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littleweasel22

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"Remember, sh*t spreads quicker than a ho's legs, so keep everything under wraps."
HAHAHA... that's great
 
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